Phir Se- this song really makes me feel in love once again

''''Must Not Read....It Hurts''''''

'' My home needs rennovation but no one is helping me''' I need your help as my brothers and sisters are not at all co-operating with me...My home which was once a palace has turned into dilapidated house from behind[back side]..it glitters from frontside and everyone says its beautiful, people click photographs of it and show it to others but i know one day it will collapse because who so ever i have given responsibility to rennovate from backside they run away with my money and that can be a cause of end of my home''''

After reading these lines did you awll feel my pain..this is a story of ''My Country'' 'India''

In India people fight for their states and say i am bengali, i am marathi etc but never Say i am Indian..why?

As you awll know that India was known as a ''Golden Bird''long time back before arrival of british. There came one British and turned my land into a big shit pot. They really messed up our lives by making us slaves. In our own land, we used to work as labours. After a long battle of around 90 years, with lot of blood shed we released ourselves from their trap and again tried to make it well.

But still we have a seed of slavery running in our veins through blood in our body. Now our Politicians have taken place of British. Our politics is the most dramatic in the whole world. People laugh on us when they see a drama of our Parliamentary house, how they yell for their states, as if they are going to develop. But things are reversed, they yell to show themselves genuine while discussions and missuse our treassure by filling their own bank accounts. But corruption is so much that even having proves against these politicians, noone takes an action on anyone.

What i feel is they Rennovate my home[India] from front side[metropoliton cities] and leave back side[villages].

As India is a beautiful country on Map and in history but the truth is still to be unveilled , many of the villages still do not have Electricity. So how can we think of stranger[T.V] in their homes, which really spreads awareness among villagers. Our upliftment can only be possible if we start taking steps towards modernisation of villages.

Villagers must be aware of everything going all over the world.

Indians speak of modernisation and globalisation but first they have to raise their mentallity and thinking , then only we can rennovate our complete home. Change is always good as it looks beautiful.

I can only dream with my open eyes, that how will my country look after complete rennovation, and my eyes glitter with surprise , that MY COUNTRY can also prosper and flourish one day.

So lets[INDIANS] UNITE TOGETHER to turn our home into perfect modern home with interior as it is from front side should be from behind tooo. We must fight for our country like an owner not like a worker.

;;'''' Dual personaliy

''' lets start with some good lines''''
boye jaatey hain bete, aur ug jaati hain betiyaan
khaad pani beton mein, aur leh lahalati betiyaan
Everest ki oonchain tak dhakele jaatey hain bete
Aur chad jaati hain betiyan
Rulatey hain bete, aur roti hain betiyaan
kai tarah giratey hain bete
Sambhaalti hain betiyaan
sukh ke sapnay dikhaatey hain bete
Unko poora karti hain betiyan
Jeewan to beton ka hai
aur maari jaati hain betiyan



People pray for a boy, not for a girl............... they desire a boy not a girl


Blessings of elders are for male, not for female,
They love to have a boy ,not a girl

BUT in need of wealth, they go to goddess laxmi

And pray in depth in need of courage
They go to Goddess Durga
And pray for more age

In need of education they call upon Goddess Saraswati
Any crave for promotion

Then why do they hesitate, to have a devi in their family?



so i think now my dear friends would have come to know about the title of this blog..yes thats a reallity where our country men compare themselves with Americans just by changing their way of living and by the way of dressing up but still their mind is in 16th century...when female foetus infanticide was done only because of Dowry System and more over they used to have so much of land ,that it was difficult to manage without a male child... today girls have changed so much ,they study and start earning for theme and even for the family..But still parents are killing gal child in a womb only... even a female who is delivering a child .doesnt need girl child and she takes a bold step of killing daughter inside her womb.



And in case of animals it is reverse...males are sent to the slaughter house to cut them into pieces and females are kept as a domestic animal..cause there they can earn out of their eggs or milk..see what a dual personality we are having... animals have better luck than us

We kill our daughters and save female animals....it doesnt mean reader that we are kind and concerened towards animals ...thats a big NO NO NO

human is the other name of selfishness..they save female animal cause they get to earn and also human thinks that if it will be cut,,,, there will be no income one day and how will they earn in future...so they leave female animal f or reproduction and also earn with its production

agar itni si baat hindustaani samajh jayein ki agar duniya mein ladkiyan nahin raheingi ..to wo din aayega jab ye duniya ek khandar banker reh jaayegi

''so we must stand together and save girl child;" Stop female foetus infanticide''

'''IF WE WOULD HAVE BEEN TOGETHER''':((

;''A short
story of a mother and a child''there was a
mother and a child who were so happy togetzher and were flourishing every
minute
and every moment...they were really enjoying there life for the
fullest but then
came a stranger in their home who acted as an evil..and
tried his level best to
divide them and rule so that he can be called as a
king of all the property and
these two as their servants..just because of
that stranger ,and the way he used
to give them greed of everything on
living separately child separated with
mother and forgot her...but mom still
thinks''if we would have been together we
could have done that and this and
we could have made our condition
better'''now the son who wants identity of his in society struggled a hell lot..but when everyone called him ditcher or betrayer and didnt accept him and rely on
him..came forth in negative way just to have his identity and also to take
revenge with society for not accepting him in a positive manner..now every
negative deed which happens in society, without any investigation people
started
taking his name , that he is the one who is responsible fo this
murder or loot ......coz when a child is not proved trustworthy for mother how can he be good for society...mother still wants son to come back home as she realises he is her son ...........
her part of the body and more over if they will be together they will be much more strong to fight with outsiders.... but where i felt pity is son doesn't even think about mother as he is very adamant..and wanna approach people on his own...mother is waiting fo the child to come back where as child is not at all concerned..you may be
thinking why am i telling this story...''HERE THE MOTHER IS[INDIA] AND THE
SON IS[PAKISTAN]


i wrote all
this because when one day i asked a citizen of pakistan that '''what would have
happened if we would have been together'''?cause 63 years is a very
long period of separation''he said
i never even thought about it...my reply was yes i really expected the same as
you are INDIA"S[mother] son [PAKISTAN]..and mother always keeps on waiting
fo the child to come back home..but child never ever can feel the pain of his mom
if we would have been together.
1...we would have proved ourselves as a strongest country.
we would have been having the best cricket team
we would have been having the best football teamwe would
have been having the best tourists placeswe would
have been having the bestest best unity wid so many religions
we would have been having courage of dragging out irrelevant people from country...bla bla
bla
why i represented INDIA and PAKISTAN as mother and son so that people could
understand the pain of separation..
so can we come together to make meet mother and child once again wid no
grudges..???????????

'''Beware''''[21st century]

''' Presenting my views and wanna make you aware of some facts''

Yesterday i really felt great by reading out some of the brains of our future of india means new and young generation, what do they feel and how do they feel is completly reverse from eachother and these different direction kids can only make ""INDIA our motherland''' as a developed country but fo this they have to not only sit and discuss rather than sitting they have to take initiative by leaving that room in which they are having an arguement wid bear in one hand and ciggarette on other hand...they have to take one step forward and hit the iron till it becomes hot..

last day i wrote a status somewhere:::::::‎'''Hey Indians Beware''' ''''History repeats itself, character changes'''[ arrival of OBAMA is a sign of Slavery once again'''

''So my dear new generation posted some of their thoughts...those are under..

1. i dont think so...............if russian or chineze come here........it doesnt mean........they come to rule us.......... haa.jarurat se jyada bhav nahi dena chahiye
2. ‎2700 cr spent not by us...bt by usa govt.
3. iska matlab koi kahi na jaye
4. yar abhi tak stone age me jee rahi ho kya..ab koi kisi ko slave nahi bana sakta..it is jus globlztn..sweet no no sourheart.
5. i protest....i strongly protest...the future of India lies with America..nd my grandfather used to say that the days of slavery were better than the days of independence..If that is so i want my slavery back . Better to be ruled by Obama than by Mulayam, Laloo and other thugs...
6. Sowwie its not Slavery , India cant be salve agian as we are young nation , no nation is young in as we are. He see Bizzness oppotunity in India. and came to develop bizzness. we are buying the stuffs which we cant produce dats it. India Stands alone on da world and we hardly have intimate frnz(exception Russia) So we have to rise on our own and i am sure we will.don worry of his visit ..take him just as normal political tourist
7. America gave us the internet and also the facebook...the automobile also came from America and so was the jeans..the britishers gave us english because of which we are prospering....take out UK and America from us and we are left with nothing..no nation can rise on its own...nd we were the first to propogate the idea of globalization...Vasudeva kutumbakam..the whole universe is my family..long live america, long live obama nd long live facebook
8. u need to think deep first tell me wad u do and wads yor ed qualification? den i will reply ur points how u will ralize its India which gave everything ..and will give again each things
9. I cud notstop laughing at his commnt ..indian education syst nee dto be improved i feel ..if ppl comment lyk dis even in wild dreams
10. according to ur saying no nation can rise on its own...then why do we say gandhi did everything all alone fo freedom
11. 
    Just think..why there are 7 days in a week all over the worldwhy there is decimal syst of numbering all oover the world...whey there are same no of planets all over the worldwho bring in wireless telephonywho has given the current e mail sysetmwho has dveloped modern micor processor theorem of Pythagoras was found in ancient indian scriptsthe tips of YOGA or Kamasutra are da same and cant be reveresed after centuriesalber enstine has openly said he has made awaken his kundilini by himlayan monki have met N no of Amzing MOnks who has hleped me lyk anything widout selfish interestu will find more foreigner in the hills of himaliya running after the sadhu sanyasi for secret knowledge
12. .........u should have the knowledge that internet or fb r here 4 just some years ago...........and usa or uk too r not very old incomparison to INDIA........ we can live witout fb or internet or jeans for thousands of year.......... b...t we cannt live without bread and butter which is provided by India and we the Indiansso..........change ur mindset...........india is now capable of doing anything
13. ..hi buddy...i m an MBA and a CFA..AArag india gave the Arabic numerals (0 to 9) which is fundamental to mathematics...they are called Arabic because the Arabs took iy from india and spread it to the whole world..but yes it was given by india...that was the golden age..but for the last two thousand years we are a nation who is deep asleep and has given nothing to the world except lalu and mulayam yadav...
14. ...i m an indian ...well mate u can say this because u r taking it for granted..i cannot live without internet or jeans and millions of my compatriots also cannot
15. ‎200 years ago EAST INDIA CO came from UK to do Business in India & due to our Greed & Infighting we Became their SLAVES, now OBAMA is here as a Good SALESMAN instead of STATESMAN to find 50K Jobs for Americans by exploiting our huge MARKET. Its Time to be Cautioned & not to repeat Past Mistake of British Invasion & rather USE them for benefit of INDIA instead of Misused by BUYING obsolete ARMS at Heavy Price from USA
16. i think that we got freedom because Winston Churchill lost the elections in Britain and Clement Atlee came to power..Gandhi gave us nothing except the charkha..gandhi wanted us to go back to the stone ages...but yes i concede that he did a lot for the upliftment of women though he himself was sexually repressed..
17. ..my best wishes...i would beg to differ sir..the best thing that happened to india, in my opinion , was the coming of East India company and the British..They gave us english, science, railways , telegraph,civil society and law and order..if they hadn't come i dont know what our state would have been..u r right sir that we may be buying over-priced arms..but that is a small price if we consider the amount of technology and aid that we have got from from them.....
18. You are right! Its another side to look at...but its very personal feelings.. Its up to us to decide if to be Rich Slaves or Poor Independent Nation!! Than we instead of honouring Bhagat Singh, Chander Shekhar Azad & Million fre...edom fighters should lick feet of Britishers to come & rule us again!! Self Respect is much more valueable asset than wordly benefits!! Its very personal like few Girls don't mind sleeping with Producers to get roles & some kill a person even if he try to spare a dirty look! All in our mind & if we love freedom/self respect is very personal & I'm ready to sacrifice everything for Self respect & nation's pride.

''''''Have we become so much materialistic that we have forgotten the number of harrasment they gave us[indians]???.... i was really shocked will these thoughts change our country???

what i feel is''' its better to be hungry then to be slave of others'''

these thoughts turn person into terrorist

people call me i live in stone age..but are they really modern..?.eg. still Sonia Gandhi is not accepted as Indian ..why?

when they can say all alone India cant do anything then is our freedom battle one man show?

kids out here in our country think wearing jeans and using social networking is a modernity...but thats not at all true..that gives us knowledge which they do not imply in their daily lives

they have to change their mindsets first..and really if they will use these arguements and take out solution ..we will and can prosper.. but to be very true we learn out of mistakes...so we musnt repeat what happened in past to suffer fo another 500 yrs this time...lets get together and wid unity we must take out the solution of 50k posts fo americans...where will Indians go if they will hold the posts here....think deeply

''' Special Woman'''

• hmmm i know people would guess differently by reading a topic only not a matter... may be they will think i am trying to tell about Mayawati, Sonia Gandhi or Rani Laxmi Bai...but thats wrong i am telling u about a woman who is hard working at home , smart working out in work and even then she is ready to face people as she doesnt have babies..people do not think that she herself feel bad on not having her creation apart from this they try to point her out as she has been disqualified in some competition..i have seen people back bitching..'' oh she doesnt wanna have baby as she doesnt wanna spoil her figure and her looks or her professional life''' bla bla bla
• ;;;I consider such kind a woman as a Special Woman'''
• Now you might be thinking why? it doesnt have any stupid thing behind...have you read mythology? its connected wid it...first woman and man were Adam and Eve... as Adam was very much obedient towards God who made this whole world ...Adam and eve together were very happy but suddenly while living in heaven's garden Eve met a evil , who started teaching her against God that '' he doesnt want u people to be intelligent like him thats why he stops both of you from eating some of the fruits like '''an apple of that tree'''..... and you know woman ...she went straight way to Adam and started asking him to bring an apple of that tree only which almighty told not to be eaten by them...Adam tried to stop but she became adamant and atlast Adam brought an apple and they ate....and the result was they came to know many things which almighty never wanted them to know for their betterment...so he cursed EVE and ADAM and sent them on EARTH to live...the curse was every woman from now will deliver her creation and with so much of pains that it will be like her second birth and will remember the curse of GOD...and will also remember how she betrayed almighty in heaven's garden...and fo Adam the curse was from now Man will not be able to eat food with rest..he will have to first sweat himself to earn money and then will be able to have food with tensions , That will make him realise how he back stabbed almighty in heaven by listening to Eve and not obeying HIM who was giving him every thing without pains..
• '''The cause of telling this story was ''Dont you think the woman to whom people on Earth says ""Barren Woman ''' is not actually incomplete but she is the woman or a creature who is not cursed by God to have pains and sufferings and delivering babies...if we start thinking positive we can change the thoughts of the world and let every person live happily... She should not be called as a barren woman..inplace she must be known as ""Special Woman''with no curse and also she gives and takes care of one orphan or a homeless child...
• its not a big thing to give birth...its a very big and painful thing with sacrifices to nurture properly and to make child a praise worthy...

India In Reality

INDIA such beautiful place on earth and in books..... but do you really find beauty? i am shocked to see poverty and illetracy in 21st century here.



last week i went to one of my students home they are punjabi christians..their ancestors have converted into christians . people think when they adopt christianity they get money and because of greed of money they adopt this religion but thats not true. as i entered their village its full of uneducated people and poverty all over,, i wont say they are staying away of media..... their gals grow their nails.. put nail enamel also, wera narrow jeans and some were wearing skirts also but when i came to know that they did not study after 3rd standard i really got banged by their statement and came to know why my country is in still developing country and where is my country lacking behind... i love my country and want to see it grow day by day. we are making our metro cities so beautiful but neglecting our villages.

what i feel is if we start from our villages , we will certainly be in a row of developed countries but our politicians only rennovate those cities where they are living.

i could see pain of poverty and backwardness in their eyes when i was in their village. they still live in huts with only cots and they cook food in chullahs... they have only one room for the family of nine people...and all are adults.

they have no privacy in their lives....

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Real story Feb, 28 '10 Subject: reallity, Viewed by: 225
Guys here is a real story to read
Some friends were going from Delhi to Jaipur in a taxi, whose driver was a sikh.
all of the friends were cracking jokes on sikh, sharing it with eachother and laughed at on the journey.
The sikh driver did not utter a single word during journey,,,,, he just listened to them politely and remained patient .
At the end of the journey, he called one of them and said '' i will not stop you on making jokes on sikh neither i will tell you the stories of their bravery. ''JUST TAKE THIS ONE RUPEE COIN AND GIVE IT TO ANY POOR SIKH BEGGAR"
SIX MONTHS PASSED THAT ONE RUPEE COIN IS STILL WITH THOSE FRIENDS
YOU KNOW WHY???????????????
COZ HE COULDN'T FIND ANY SIKH BEGGING ANYWHERE. SIKHS NEVER GIVE UP. THEY EARN WITH THEIR HARD WORK AND NEVERBEG TILL THEIR LAST BREATH.
STILL WE DONT STOP MAKING JOKES ON THEM...SOME OF US HAVE REALISED... LET THE WHOLE WORLD KNOW IT.....

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parents do think over?

parents do think over whatever i have written
if affair is bad or affair with older woman is bad then what was LORD KRISHNA doing with RADHA. as per my knowledge she was elder to lord krishna . every INDIAN with proud remember them with graet honour.
lord krishna was in love with radha from his childhood if the same thing is done by our young generation parents try to separate lovers, beat them and neighbours put allegations on them.
while in the evening and morning they go to temple to worship lord krishna and radha...
lord krishna's wife was Rukhmani and there is no existance of her in temple. we proudly accept their love but when it comes to own children they scold them and give them punishment and harass them too.
i still dont understand the double personality of the people of our country. why there is always radha near krishna ? why not his own wife?
can we put photo of our dad with some other woman's pic.. no
we will always want mom and dad's pic together.
then why so? if they were lovers and we accepted them then we must accept lovers of today ......

let's check out.... how many of we are following!!!!!!!

indian constitution'">
how much it is theoretical and how many of us are following..??? let's check out one thing only what is going on in india.!!
it took around 2 years 11 months and 18 days to write constitution of india by honourable MR. B.R.AMBEDKAR to whom we call baba saheb also, he must have thought a lot about india and made constitution to see india growing.

lets take one point which he wrote in it that there should be no caste system.... now i am into fix how many of us are following it.. lets not discuss common people.. think about so called intellectual people who are appointed to run our country and who are holding respectable posts in government.. i mean politicians, they are only thinking or they only thought about their vote bank.
why do we get or give reservations to SC or ST?
is it not bad??????????????
we ourself and politicians themselves so openly provocating caste system.we shouldnt talk about caste if we are real indians. except caste system if we do anything against constitution we are punished. but when so called owner of india means politicians are doing so openly.. shouldn't they be punished?
we are still practicing this shit of caste system.. shouldnt it be stopped? we are still in a list of developing countries and will always be if we will have this kind of introvert feeling of caste system.
we are in 21st century now students should be admitted in a proffessional course according to their intellect .. not according to their castes...
castes shouldnt be discussed it should be stopped.. is this baby's fault if he/she is born in so called low caste?
we all have same colour blood with same combination of chemicals in our body , with same system arranged in body . when GOD made no difference in making us who are we to create differences?
and when we want blood in emergency to save life of our near and dear ..do we see whose blood it is and what caste that blood carries? that minute we just buy it to save life of our loved ones...
this is what i feel... what do you think?
leave your comments... am i wrong somewhere?

THE THING WHICH ITCHES MY MIND

PLEASE DO NOT FEEL BAD AFTER READING WHATEVER I HAVE WRITTEN

I WRITE WHATEVER REALLY SURPRISES ME.. MAY BE AS I FEEL YOU DONT.. BUT STILL I WANNA SHARE WHATS IN MY MIND AND DEPRESSES ME

LET'S START AND DISCUSS SOMETHING ABOUT HISTORY'S ONE LESSON THAT'S OUR ''''FATHER OF NATION MAHATAMA GANDHI'''

I READ MANY BLOGS ABOUT HIM JUST TO KNOW THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN '''GANDHI'' AND '' GODSE'' AND EVEN SEARCHED IN GOOGLE BUT COULDN'T GET SATISFACTORY REPLY THAT CAN HOLD MY HAND BACK FROM MY HEAD.

TELL ME ONE THING WHAT SO SPECIAL GANDHI DID FOR US, HE DID EVERUTHING TO CALM DOWN HIS EGO BY PLAYING PERFECT DIRTY POLITICS.. AND SAYING I BELIEVE IN TRUTH AND NON-VIOLENCE.

WHEN HE WAS DOING LAW IN SOUTH AFRICA AND NO BODY LET HIM ENTER A RESTAURANT BY KNOWING HE IS AN INDIAN,BY SAYING ''INDIANS AND DOGS ARE NOT ALLOWED''.. AFTER COMPLETING HIS STUDIES HE FINALLY CAME TO INDIA WITHOUT HAVING AN INTENTION OF THROWING BRITISH OUT OF COUNTRY.

A TURNING POINT CAME IN HIS LIFE WHEN HE WAS THROWN OUT FROM THE 1ST CLASS COMPARTMENT OF THE TRAIN BY THE BRITISH IN HIS OWN COUNTRY BECAUSE ONLY BRITISH COULD TRAVEL IN 1ST CLASS.. HIS EGO HURT AND HE MADE A PLAN OF TAKING OUT BRITISH FROM INDIA.

NOW THE QUESTION ARISES.. HOW CAN ONE MAN DO ALL ALONE FOR WHAT HE IS FAMOUS FOR????????

WHY WAS HE NEVER WOUNDED BY THE BRITISH BULLET???????

WHY WAS HE NEVER BEATEN UP BY THE BRITISH WHILE HE WAS LEADING THE PROCESSION OF REVOLUTIONIST. WHERE AS OTHERS USED TO GET INJURED?

ACTUALLY I WANNA KNOW THE ANSWERS AND MYSTERY BEHIND ALL THESE QUESTIONS

I STILL DONT UNDERSTAND SOME OF THE MYSTERIOUS QUESTIONS.. WHY ARE WE STILL BLIND AND DUMB FROM OUR BRAINS , TO NOT TO THINK OVER?

A VERY APPROPRIATE SAYING I READ .. IF SOME ROBBERS OR MURDERERS ENTERS YOUR HOME WILL YOU NOT DEFEND YOURSELF BY SAYING '' I AM A GANDHI FOLLOWER''

WHO BELIEVES IN PUTTING HIS OTHER CHEEK INFRONT IF SOMEONE SLAPS YOU ON ONE CHEEK?

NOW-A- DAYS WE BELIEVE IN IF SOMEONE THINKS OF SLAPPING YOU, TAKE INITIATIVE AND SLAP HIM FIRST.

'''THE BEST DEFENCE IS TO OFFENCE''''

AND WHERE AS I THINK THERE WAS SOME CONNECTION BETWEEN '''' GANDHI AND GODSE WITH HEY RAM''''

I THINK WHEN GANDHI WAS SHOT DEAD HIS LAST WORDS WEREN'T AAH OR ANYTHING ELSE.. IT WAS ''HEY RAM'' NO DOUBT, BUT IT WASN'T FOR BHAGWAN RAM, IT WAS LIKE ''HEY RAM YE TUNE KYA KIYA'' FOR NATHU RAM GODSE BUT AS GANDHI WAS A MAN WHO WAS BORN WITH A SILVER SPOON.. HE COULD SPEAK ONLY HALF A SENTENCE ''HEY RAM''

AND AGAIN HE BECAME A HERO BETWEEN SIMPLE HEARTED INDIANS... THEY MADE HIM MAHATAMA AND WROTE ''HEY RAM'' ON HIS GRAVE.....

TELL ME ONE THING IN THIS ERA FOR WHAT DO WE FIGHT AND MURDER EACHOTHER??????????? THATS ALSO GANDHI...MEANS MONEY.. IF HE WAS A BELIEVER OF TRUTH AND NON VIOLENCE THEN HIS PHOTO SHOULDNT BE ON OUR CURRENCY WHICH IS A MAIN ELEMENT OF VIOLENCE...

SORRY READERS IF I HAVE HURT YOU .BUT THIS THING PAINS ME WHY ONLY GANDHI WHY NOT OTHER MARTYRS ARE REMEMBERED BY INDIANS.??????....

TODAY"S LOVE

its a very difficult topic to discuss and is very easily done practically by people of the age ... varies from 12 to 60......

previously or yester years it was said that love is the toughest task in life as it is not in books neither its in semesters.. its like a cancer which has to be carried whole life till death...................... this was yester years love.

twenty first century love is great.. its like a time pass... kids think if you do not have anything to do.. then just have one opposite sex in life and start saying i love you.........

both the sexes ... weather boy or a girl.. both have become practical... whatever they do , every thing is pre planned... weather their birth which was well planned by their parents, their first school that was also planned by parents and paternal parents, then studies, stream their proffessional courses and then job,,,, and these all the things include love.......

boys they love gals after seeing how beautifull she is or from how much rich family she is... why beautiful they see... because the day they will take her to party or for a date other friends should see and praise him for having such good looking girl with him.................

and now lets discuss about the girls............ what they see while loving some one..

these days they see assets..... like bike , car , wallet how heavy it is..and his job and bunglow... these young generation has become very materialistic and money minded............

i didnt mean to say while writing they are bad.......... what i meant to say was SEE WE GAVE THEM BIRTH. WE TAUGHT THEM... WE SAY THIS CENTURY IS FULL OF POLLUTION.... AND POLLUTION CAN DAMAGE EVEN BRAIN OF A PERSON THEN THE POINT TO BE THOUGHT IS FROM WHERE INTELLIGENCE IN THESE KIDS HAVE COME???? ATLEAST THEY ARE THINKING ABOUT THEIR SECURED FUTURE ............. DID WE THINK I MEAN PEOPLE OF YESTERYEARS USED TO SUFFER IN LOVE AND BECAUSE OF LOVE....

BUT NOW A DAYS KIDS THEY LIVE THEIR LIFE FULLY I MEAN THEY LOVE.. GET MARRIED AND THEN THERE IS NO LOVE

BECAUSE IN REALLITY THEIR WASNT LOVE BETWEEN TWO OF THEM , IT WAS BETWEEN THEM AND MATERIAL.............. AND THEY LIVE HAPPY BECAUSE THEY HAVE EVERYTHING....

TODAYS GENERATION IS A SMART THINKER........ I LIKE THEM

surprise

Brief introduction of mine is i am working in an academic field from last many years and i meet lot of girls and boys but some of the instances really surprise me , one of them i want to share with you all .... one day a village girl came to enquire about a spoken english course, she was wearing such an attire.... i thought she is working as a maid in some of the houses near by.. but no doubt she was beautiful... according to what we have made a definition of beauty thats big eyes, fair and tall..

She took an immediate action on taking an addmission and started coming from next day to the institute to learn english.. on the very first day i started asking about her .....just to make her comfortable.. she told me that she lost her parents at age of 1 and a half and now she is around 21.. and since then her parternal grand pa took care of her.. this time she is doing graduation part second and wants to become respectable in life. ....every body felt pity for her.. means my all the students started helping her every way. I started teaching her from the alphabets as she was not aware of alphabets. ....i gave her admission thinking she will be a challenge for me.. if i will be able to teach her..... i will be able to teach anyone in this world.

When she came next day and i taught her A for apple and more of the alphabets and was keeping an eye on other students also, we completed that days material of teaching and the class got over. she stayed back in my office and started telling me that she lost her father but mother is still alive..and more painfull was when she told me that my mom killed my dad by mixing poison in a food.. i really felt sad for her, she started crying i wipped her tears and told her that from today i am your mom and don worry i will take care of you, i will teach you, i used to teach her for around ten hours everyday with every batch.... with no extra fees because i wanted to make her something important, then she told me it was a love marriage of my mom and dad. her dad was a surgeon in a govt. hospital and mother is a teacher in a govt. school but after her birth her mother fell in love with someone else and still she is a keep of that man.. she told me that my mom tried to kill me when i was in a womb.. then after birth she threw me from roof of home but i was saved.. then she left me in my paternal home and took dad's money and her jewellery to stay with that man...sometimes i used to doubt on this story of her.... that how come mother be so bad for a daughter but due to her tears i had to believe on her.

after a week or so i noticed that she is a girl with language learning talent..she started giving introduction infront of everyone in the class. she changed the way she used to put on clothes.. she started attending calls on phone.. whenever i used to ask whose call was that she used to reply my grandpa's.. actually she lost her grand ma 2 years back only so that was really the matter of feeling pitty on her.. Time passed ..she learnt much but now she disclosed that she has a boy in her life who lives out of state.. who loves her and wants to marry her.. we all ...means students and me felt great atleast she has someone who can take care of her after her grand pa.

One fine day after a month ...she told me that maam i am getting a job in some mart and i told her not to do as it is a door to door sellingwork and no life partner will like that you were sales girl ......so that day a turning point came in her love for me she replied me back when my dada ji has no problem then what problem you are having.. students got shocked.. coz she got her job just because of english and her groomed personality.. so now she started coming less.. when she used to come to the class every student started talking to her less.. so one day when she really realised that every one is angry with her , she came to me and said i wanna talk to you ... i said carry on.. she started crying and i felt very bad..... i said what happened tell me.. i am still alive for you.. she said my mummy wants me to live with her and she is a society woman also and has lot of money.. she is saying we both will earn together.. and is saying else marry a man with whom she is living.. he has come to this city also and is calling me from pco that when your mother wants then marry me.. i will keep you as princess.. she continued by saying he has lot of money , big bunglow and cars also.. but he is around of 45 years. then i asked about her boyfriend and also suggested her to run away with him to save her life.. but she said no, now i will live with some relative here ,as it is dangerous living all alone in the city.. i said now from where your relatives have born.... coz before she told me i am alone in this city and thats y taken a room on rent and dada ji is in village... I still continued believing her.

Then one day again she came and said i left my boy also and will do hard work in door to door selling.. From that day she didnt meet me.... people saw her with three guys roaming here and there .....they toldme .. her friend told me that now she carries 5 sim cards.. and she changed her number..... and one final day i came to know that she was a story maker.. just to learn english and to be with the batches she made such a story..actually only 2 days back i came to know that she is living with some boy now and now she freaks out in a city with proper western attire.

SHE USED TO CALL ME MOM............. AND FORGOT ME AFTER LEARNING A LANG, SHE USED TO SAY I WILL NEVER DO ANYTHING THAT CAN PUT YOU DOWN.. I WILL ALWAYS MAINTAIN MY CHARACTER.......................... BUT ALL THE WORDS WERE PROVED WRONG......................................WHY DO PEOPLE BREAK TRUST..? I TRUSTED HER , USED TO FIGHT OTHERS THAT SHE SPEAKS TRUTH ....BUT NOW I AM PROVED WRONG ........ATLAST WHAT I LEARNT IS...... NEVER BELIEVE ON ONE SIDED STORY.......

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